Ask the Universe and you shall receive..

If you are inclines to Law of Attraction (Law of Mirroring), Spirituality and Awakening, you tend to hear this a lot of times but for some reason things just don't seem to come to you.

I finally realised that it had to be something that I wasn't succeeding, so I ask the Universe, why do I keep getting this kind of relationships? What patterns do I need to let go? What it is that I'm not understanding or seeing? What layer do I need to uncover so I can understand how to shift to a more loving and harmonious lifestyle.

And the important thing here was that I felt, I believed I would get the answers, I believed I would understand this and I would be able to clear this pattern from my life.

No far after this, I had a conversation with a social worker, it was a pretty random conversation, I didn't even know what to say in that meeting, and suddenly in the conversation it came my parent's relationship and here was the answer.. She said "this is engraved in your subconscious, the way you seen your parents is the way your unconscious sees a normal relationship" and she suggested that I would right down how do I see a perfect romantic relationship. I was super excited to do this, because here was my answer for the layer that I wasn't realising, that I was missing.. The next day I did start writing down what is a perfect romantic relationship for me, and here is where I was amazed how healing is so powerful.. I wrote two pages, I let it flow, didn't force any words to come up and when I finished I realised that a full page was solely with all the things that I didn't agree in a relationship and all things related to my parents' relationship.

So if you are struggling with toxic relationships, you are attracting all the people that make you dim your light to please other people, I encourage you, grab a pen and paper and start writing down, whether is the perfect relationship, the perfect job, the perfect house, anything that you feel you are not understanding in your life. You will be amazed at how many things can come out of you and you never realised that it has been so painful all your life because you have coped and covered with your own pain.

We spend all our lives expanding, improving, and the bottom line is, all pain and struggle is within you, all you have to do is to connect with your inner child and you will get all the answers. Big thing to note, there is no quick fix in real healing, you have denied and rejected your inner child all your life, it's about time you reconnect and allow to trust you again. Keep your word, follow your heart, do meditation to connect deeper, get your answers, write down if it's something that inspire you and help. Find the best way of communication within you. We are all unique, there is no one only way to heal yourself, take time to rediscover yourself and make the most of it. You don't need to express to the world, this is not about a competition with others but an understanding and reconnection with who you are.

Be kind, be you!!

Paula Pereira Yoga Instructor

Holistic Coach Reiki Master Therapeutic Tarot Reader